My girlfriend was raped 2 years ago, and since then we haven’t had sex. She’s been in therapy the whole time, and I’ve tried my best not to pressure her but honestly at this point I feel like a roommate that she can dump her problems on.
We’ve been together for a total of 6 years now, I was planning on marrying her before this happened, but I just can’t go into a marriage where the intimacy is dead from the outset.
I don’t know how much longer I can really wait, life isn’t eternal and I’d like to settle down and have a family with someone. I love her but I don’t see what I can do. But that being said I’d feel like a total piece of shit if I left her for this. And I think everyone I know would think that too. So I don’t know what to do. I can’t pressure her to have sex obviously, so I can’t bring it up, I can’t leave. I’m just stuck.