So while I was in a 3 hour lecture class my phone was off because it died. When I got home, I found my entire apartment had been cleaned. I turned my phone on to find a dozen texts from my girlfriend and like 20 missed calls. What I guess happened was she started freaking out because I wasn't responding, drove 40 minutes to my place, broke in, saw my schedule and cleaned my apartment out of guilt. She feels really bad about what she's done but I just feel so violated. Like if she's willing to break into my apartment, what boundaries will she respect? Am I overreacting. Would you end an otherwise healthy relationship over this?
TL;DR: My girlfriend broke into my apartment because I wasn't texting back, realized I was in class, and cleaned my entire apartment out of guilt