You dont talk for a while and you go back to a text string to say hi and they reply “Who’s this?”…then you say who it is and….ghost
They ghost you
They make you feel awful if your opinion is different than theirs and put you down because of it.
On my 30th birthday the person who was supposedly my close friend saw a party going on and joined in. We were supposed to go out to dinner and she never came back.
I don’t know if it was the case with one of my best friends or if it was just coincidence. But long story short I was the only one calling to see if they wanted to come over or hang out etc. Not only that but every time I did they would say they were busy, or had plans to hang out with someone else. Maybe it was true, that they really were busy but that came up as an excuse a lot. And the fact that they were hanging out with their other friends a lot more then me pretty much signaled they weren’t interested anymore, it could have just been bad timing, but eventually I gave up.