Are you doing okay? I see your most recent update on his actions.. it’s not your fault. You’re perfect with faux nails or not. Your salmon is just as fantastic as your spaghetti would be. It’s truly his loss and he will know this in due time
Maybe somethong happened with his job and he is upset about it without telling you yourself whats going on?
Either that, or he has some seriously unresolved issues from his childhood inregards to money and you both need to sit down and discuss it.
I spent a lot of my younger childhood days living in the lower brackett. I ate ramen noodles and cereal every day and on occasion a hotnspicy from McDonald’s as a treat. When I was adopted, I got used to living not extravagantly but comfortably.
My boyfriends family had experienced poverty much more then I had and were VERY frugal. Weve had conversations about it and come to an understanding. I will not save every penny I own to be frugal and not enjoy every day life. We can save some, but not all. We agreed on that.
Well, well, well, isn’t it nice that from now on he can cook himself as much Spaghetti as he wants?
Hope you’ve already called a divorce lawyer for the next steps.
Onother trash can (man)
Freeze all joint accounts and credit cards. Speak to a lawyer stat. And when you can, speak to a therapist solo. I’m so sorry this happened to you but I know one day (hopefully soon!) that you’ll be happy this happened now and not later. Sending you hugs!!