Mini Guide

Consiglio: Saying “I feel __ when __” instead of “You’re making me __” can diffuse many arguments before they even begin.

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For example, if someone is hovering while you work, saying “You're making me nervous” can sound accusatory and put that person on the defensive.

On the other hand, saying “I feel nervous when you're standing behind me” is an open and honest communication that doesn't imply wrongdoing by the other person.

It's a small difference that can have a big impact on relationships.