Consiglio del giorno che ti può essere utile:
The common saying is “treat others how you want to be treated” but that’s complete rubbish. As humans we are all so different and we should celebrate the diversity in each other’s difference and try and speak to and treat others that way that is most beneficial for them.
The most common example of this is that some people love to be told things “straight up”, they want things said directly and honestly to their face. If they mess up, they want to be told “you did x, y and z wrong.” When people speak straight up to me, I find it really hurtful. I would much rather be told in a gentle way and I can make the improvements myself. However people who like things “straight up” often think treating others the same way is kind whereas it’s not always appreciated. Treating others how they want to be treated is much kinder to those around you and you’ll find people are more willing to approach/ discuss difficult topics and will in return treat you well.
Sorry this isn’t worded very well but I hope you get my point! 🙂