It's not something I paid much attention to (I don't really use my instagram other than to message people), until a friend of mine recently joked how I should start a porn site. He showed it to me and well, although her posts are just us kissing, the highlights are fucked up. Loads of shots of my butt cheeks, there's even a few of her grabbing my boxers or putting her hands inside them (with a lot of cucumbers and droplets to point out if it wasn't obvious…). And guess what? there's no pictures of her without clothes.
Her account is public, so anyone has full access to those pictures, and that anyone is my teachers, family, friends, her parents.. it's nuts. I did tell her she can film me as much as she wants, but I really didn't expect her to share those with fucking everybody.
I really don't want to upset her, it's enough that I'm upset, I just want her to remove those pictures. How do i tell her that without putting too much blame on her, i really don't want to make her sad or damage our relationship.