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Girlfriend of 4 years left my house and blocked me on everything because I bought a car without her with me and is upset I got it.

Lawschoolhopeful39 ci racconta la sua esperienza amorosa:

My dad passed away recently and his life insurance came through and my mom and I decided to get me a new car. My old car has 210,000 miles on it and has had constant issues. I found a used car with 13,000 miles for a really good price and it is a car that I really like and have always wanted. I told my girlfriend for months that I was going to buy a car and I didn’t expect to jump in one but I did and now she’s gone. She has removed and blocked me on everything and won’t answer. I told her on the phone I tried to buy her the car she wanted (2013 camaro ZL1) but the guy wouldn’t negotiate and it was going to be $42,000. So I’m not sure what to do here because I love her and want her back, Gould I just take the car back and forget it?

Wait she left you because you wouldn’t buy her a specific car? She sounds like a spoilt brat and should be grateful you decided to buy anything!

Keep the car and forget her.

Thats some top shelf manipulation right there…. leave her a message saying you took your car back, and bough her the car she wants and its all hers.

If she comes back, tell her to go $&#! herself.

I aint saying she a gold digger, but she aint messing with no….

Everything you’ve said about your girlfriend, including in the comments, points to her being a gigantic, gold digging, dickhead. She sounds like the absolute worst kind of human being. Let’s count the ways:

  1. She expected you to buy her an expensive car
  2. She threw a temper tantrum when you didn’t, and blocked you on everything, rather than talking to you like an adult.
  3. She degraded the kind of car you want because it’s for “gay guys”
  4. She’s completely shitting all over the fact that this is insurance money that came from the fact that you lost your father – WHO would be OK with someone spending their dead father‘s insurance money on them like that?!

This woman has zero respect for you, and she’s using you. Move on and never look back, she did you a favor.