first time poster so hopefully i followed all the rules. i’m really scared. idk if i’ll get into trouble so if anyone has any legal advice please let me know. i met him 9 months ago through a discord server. one of my friends [15F] was in it so i decided to join. i was in one of the channels and there were several people talking all at once. he messaged me and we talked about the most random things. we bonded really fast. talked about ourselves and turns out we live in the same city. my parents are divorced. my brother is in college so i don’t see him as much anymore. i’ve always felt lonely and i have trouble connecting with people. i felt like he was that one special person i finally connected with.
after 5 months of talking online, he brought up the idea of us “hanging out” and i was scared a bit. i’ve heard about abductions and all these scary things, but i also really wanted a friend. my mom wasn’t home and my brother was either at his dorm. my mom was working from 8AM to 9PM so i had a lot of time. anyway, he picked me up and we hung out at his house. at first i was really nervous because anything could’ve happened but we ended up having sex for the first time. he kept telling me he loved me and that i’m pretty and mature. when we were finished he cleaned me up.
after that, he dropped me off home before my mom was gonna be home. i felt so conflicted and there were many emotions going through me. i felt grossed out but he also said he loved me so i didn’t know what to do. i wasn’t answering any of his calls/texts for a few days because i was still processing that through my head. eventually, i told him i felt off about the entire thing. he said that if i loved him i’d go with it and i really wanted to date him so i did. i started to sneak off more and more.
he’s been a secret for months until now. my brother and i were talking. i don’t erase my messages with people. anyway, i went to the restroom, and when i came out, my brother had my phone in his hand and i started to freak out like crazy. he looked furious and asked me who this boy was. i broke out crying and eventually told him everything. he wants to report my boyfriend to the police and i’m scared. idk what to do. my mom is at her office working and she’ll eventually find out. please help.