…. while I was a work. As a nurse. During the pandemic. We are newly weds with our second anniversary coming up in July. My entire family lives 2000 miles away. We just bought our forever home, closed on April 23rd. I have two children from a previous marriage who absolutely adored him.
Turns out he’s become obsessed with my former friend. Calling her when I’m out, sneaking texts with her under a different name. She spent my whole shift in my home, getting fucked by my husband. I caught today’s texts before he deleted them and he dotes on her, uses the same pet names he has for me.
He says he doesn’t love her like he loves me and doesn’t want a divorce. But also misses her and doesn’t want to cut contact … LOL.
I am so torn apart. My kids witnessed the whole hysterical confrontation . I’m so physically ill and shocked and devastated I love this man so much. He is my soulmate and they even talked about me, our fights, and my “trust issues”
I’ve felt odd this month. Like I couldn’t pinpoint something different and felt very insecure. I told him I felt depressed and worried because he seemed withdrawn. We’ve had such open communication about these things, I truly thought we were special and different.
TLDR; I just found out that my whole beautiful, precious, wonderful future with the man I love is no longer and I’m wondering how someone could possibly heal from this god awful hurt.