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I know this sounds mean, but How do I (23M) tell my girlfriend(23F) that all I’m gonna think of is Joe Exotic when I see her if she cuts her hair into a mullet?

MercurialLady ci racconta la sua esperienza amorosa:

Like the title says, it's not that I don't want her to, it's her hair she should do what she wants with it without my approval. But yes I know it's weird but all I think of when I see a mullet is literally Joe Exotic. She has always been fiercely independent and will make sudden changes to her looks which I always adapt to fairly quickly, but the mullet is where I think I should have a heads up. I mean I will still love her for the person she is but it's not like I can unsee Tiger King. How do I tell her this OR should I just suck it up and try to adapt?

Just say it

Grow out your hair to look like Carole Baskin


Just be honest with her! Honestly is key

Give her a heads up. Maybe mention it to her with a little chuckle

She’s not getting a joe exotic mullet, she’s getting the kind that is trending right now and looks nothing like joe exotic’s hair.

I don’t like how you can’t have an opinion without coming up with some stupid excuse. The joe exotic thing is definitely a front. You are not controlling her if you share an honest opinion about a perspective hair style. I looked up a picture and the female mullet to me is just not great looking, I’d probably just tell her that I don’t prefer that hair style, but she can do what she wants.