You’re 34 years old and this reads like it was written by someone 20 years younger.
You’re being ridiculous.
Also: don’t watch any more black mirror episodes. Several deal with romantic relationships and you’ll lose your goddamned mind if the pig fucking episode managed to shake your relationship like this.
There is no way you are 34 years old.
On the one hand, I think it’s pretty stupid to fight about hypotheticals that don’t exist in the real world. Presumably, no terrorist will ever try to blackmail your BF to fuck a pig and so it seems absolutely meaningless to me to get upset about that scenario. Also, people talk a lot of shit, and honestly I would doubt that his theoretical lack of concern would actually stand if he was faced with a literal pig.
However! You said this led to a deeper discussion about morals. Can you say more about that? Do you think there is a significant gap in your values, and your morals? That, I am a bit more concerned about. The pig thing could be him sticking to an edgy devil’s advocate thing, but what was the discussion about morals?