We've known each other for over ten years and been together for 3.
I had a daughter in 2013 who died of cancer before she turned a year old. My life sort of fell apart after that due to leaving an abusive relationship, and the ONLY THING of hers I have left is her stuffed cow.
I have slept with it every night since she passed away. A few weeks ago my partner expressed that she felt it was weird that the stuffed animal was in the bed with us, so I put her up on the headboard. She knows whose stuffed animal it is and knows why I have it and she seemed fine with it.
I came home this afternoon to find out that she took the stuffed animal to Goodwill along with some other things. She said she didn't feel like it was healthy that I was holding onto it and decided to give it away.
I am furious. devastated. I'm so angry that I left the house and I'm seriously thinking of ending the relationship. I know it's “just” a stuffed toy but it's literally the only thing I have left of her.
Is this an overreaction or is what she did as not ok as I think it is.