So I'm[F25] 3 months pregnant & today my boyfriend[M24] was having a few drinks with his family. He came home, we went for a walk. I was a bit upset, he asked what was wrong. I told him I'm just scared and overwhelmed right now about having another baby and it's only hitting me now. He kinda ignored me. Then we had a little disagreement because he promised me he would drink less (I suffered from alcoholism before pregnancy and I'm finding it very hard him drinking around me all of the time). Also his ex whom he has kids with found out I'm pregnant today & was going crazy at him. Anyway by the time we were home we were cool again & laughing & joking together.
A few minutes later he said 'I'll be back in 5 minutes'. I asked where he was going he said just meeting his friend to give him money he owes. I said please don't be long as he knows I'm very nervous being home alone at night after a recent break in that happened. He said no babe I'll be five minutes don't worry. That was 10 hours ago. He won't pick up the phone or contact me, he has been online on messenger almost constantly. I am so upset & confused. He won't respond to any of my messages & I am worried sick & so confused as to where he's gone, why he's ignoring me. I'm so anxious.
First I was wondering if he was safe, dead or alive, then infidelity came into my head & now I just don't know what to do. Any suggestions?
I've been up all night crying. I don't know why he won't text back or call.