I don't necessary mean here but in general on MassimoL and over the internet.
It looks to me than many people disregard or belittle passionate romantic love. They saying it's just lust, it doesn't last… And they seem to push to idea of slow burn boring “love”. So many people says that love is not a feeling, it's a decision, it's caring about the other person… Sure, decision is part of it, but it shoul be based on love.
Also many people use arranged marriages as example that it can work and those people can grow to love each other… But to me that's not real love, that's just that you grow to love each other as friends or family because you have to.
So I wonder why people seem to disregard strong passionate love and promote boring slow burn “love”. Is it because they never experienced being madly in love? Is it because they did but it broke their heart and it's coping mechanism? Or are they heartless?
Also why people choose “logical choice” instead of waiting for real love? Are they heartless or desperate and it's better than nothing, than loneliness?
This question is inspired by the below post. I hope that links are allowed.