I have dated men, women, and a trans woman, and loved them all in their own way. I am currently in a gay relationship with a man. I guess I find a lot of things attractive about all genders. I find feminine men very attractive if I am thinking about fucking them, but I find masculine fit hunks attractive when I think about them fucking me. I love a fun flirty woman who is sweet and nurturing, but I also love an agressive dominate woman who knows what she wants. I love women’s bodies, their curves and boobs and legs, and how easy it is to have vaginal sex compared to all the prep work that is needed for healthy gay sex. I know its kind of rude, but trans women really can be the best of both worlds, I love the beauty and feminity of a woman, but with a penis to play with.
But at the end of the day, all that really matters is that we get along and love each other. Make each other happy and care deeply for one another. I guess I just want love like everyone else, I am just less picky when it comes to gender.
For me attraction is all mental. If we connect well I’m interested, gender is pretty irrelevant. My type is nerdy, adventurous, passionate, but also laid back overall and kind/caring
I’m sexually attracted to either muscular/fit or feminine guys and girls, so the points of attraction are similar for me. But I just can’t seem to fall for a guy irl, like I find them physically attractive but I never saw them in a romantic sense unlike girls which is strange.
For guys I want someone calm but smart and leader like, and with gals i want someone fun and creative
Purely sexually there’s a cross section of twinks and kinda punk rock pixie Chick that always gets me going. Romantically if they show me affection.