I’m specifically attracted to either tops or bottoms no switches
I enjoy both. I’ve been with a women romantically for 4 years and men aren’t appealing at the moment.
I am attracted to more muscular, conventionally attractive men – ie zack effron, robert redford, brad pitt, john ham, etc.
On the other hand I am more attracted to curvy/chubby women – ie my wife and most of my ex girlfriends.
However, personality, style, and interests sure go a long way to sway my preferences.
I have a mixed bag.
I tend to really like androgynous people with big noses, whether it’s a guy or a girl.
However, I tend to find muscle more appealing on women than men. That being said, I like it when both genders are soft and plump and huggable and pillowy (人´∀｀)｡ﾟ+
I tend to like skinny men more than skinny women, I guess because the current gendered politics surrounding body image. I always get scared when a woman is too skinny, so I’m too worried about her being skinny and it replaces my attraction. I know that men can have eating disorders, and that some women are natural very small and skinny, I guess it’s just the conditioning of growing up always hearing about women and anorexia, whereas I tend to hear more about men shooting steroids/overworking muscles.
That being said, you can throw all of my physical preferences away if the person is kind. If someone is a genuinely thoughtful, wholesome person, even if I thought they weren’t attractive at first, I will DEFINITELY start finding them attractive. It overrides every single one of my preferences. However, there is an age limit to this. If you’re too young or old or maybe immature, I will not find you romantically/sexually attractive.
My taste in men is way different from my taste in women seeing as i usually go for short, feminine guys who are Subs. But when it comes to women i like a women who’s tall or even taller perhaps, kinda tomboyish but not too much i guess and are Doms.