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Ghosting. Why do people feel like it’s OK to leave the other person in a never-ending state of not knowing instead of just being direct with them?

Probably because it’s the easier thing to do for the person doing the ghosting. (not saying it’s right, just easier)

  1. Revenge (after being ghosted themselves by the same person, the victim becomes the victimizer)

  2. Control (a form of manipulation using “fear of loss” to make oneself feel or seem more desirable)

  3. Fear (a victim of abuse may “ghost” their abuser)

  4. Fear (a person with abandonment issues may subconsciously “ghost” people as a defense mechanism)

Pure selfishness…they don’t want to feel guilty.

If I’m cutting you off I no longer give a fuck about your feelings and don’t feel the need to give an explanation. If whoever it is hasnt figured out why thats their problem

I give myself the right to speak to whoever I want, under the circumstances that I want.

And you also probably give yourself that same right.

You also got to give it to others, they have every right (just like you and me) to do it, and they should suffer the consequences of their actions, but since I give myself that right, I also give it to them.