None, I didn’t have sex until age 22. I had opportunities but I was shy, insecure, and probably had undiagnosed anxiety.
High School – 0
College and remainder of life so far – 1
Regrets, no – I’m pretty happy.
But I did find out this (including actual evidence!) that several girls in high school held crushes on me. Actually more than a few. It was a revelation, that unlocked a realization that there were also women in college and grad school, even after I was married, who wanted me to make a move. I’m befuddled that there were so many women who probably would have had sex with me. I was completely clueless.
I probably remain so, being married no for almost 39 years.
I’m hoping for those young men out there that more young women don’t just try and send signals and actually say what they want, even if it’s just “hey, I like you. Would you like to go on a date?”