My husband (42 M) and I (34 F) have been married for 15 years. We had a moderate disagreement today, which lead to some arguments.
My husband and I are in a good spot to get a new car. He said we would be better off if the car was only in his name becuase his credit is slightly better than mine. I disagreed for many reasons and the arguments ensued.
Background: I interviewed for a new job today and the interview went well (yeah). The job would double my family income. The job is 40 mins or so away so I am looking to get a more reliable vehicle.
After a period of time, I tried to talk to him about it and it turned into another argument. He says he is tired of being the bad guy and that we always agree and everything is always his fault and he is soooo tired of arguing all the time.
Here is the deal, we get into argument I would say once a month or so. They start out as minor disagreement and turn i to full blown arguments. Every time, he goes to the “OMG everything is so horrible argument and it makes me feel like shit. I think we have a pretty damn good relationship after 15 years together.
Tomorrow, he will apologize, I will forgive him, until the next time this Happens again. I am sick of it. I don’t know how to fix it.-
TLDR: Every time my husband and I argue, he says he have a bad relationship.