Stupidly, stupidly, I agreed to be a stay at home parent, now three years till child finishes school.
I've got no skills and husband basically stopped being caring and affectionate and I realized that all he wanted was a live in maid. He cheated and is generally cruel. I don't think he sees me as human.
I've stopped doing anything re housework. I just buy microwave meals for grocery. He will put clothes from the hamper in the machine, all of them in the dryer then all piled into the couch in the bedroom and dig through that for clothes. Sometimes load the dishwasher. He's put me on silent treatment for several weeks now.
I've got no way to get a job, apart from maybe being a cleaner or care worker, which wouldn't be so different from this.
Husband pulled a bait and switch after we got married. Pretended he wanted a relationship when he just wanted a housekeeper.
Edit: I'm asthmatic and my child has similar issues so ATM with covid, options are more limited re work. I'm in the UK.