I did this up until my current partner. I even lied to him about it too. Told him he was the first to make me cum. Idk why I felt I needed to do this. There’s something about being a woman and the need to make a man feel like he made you cum. It’s a weird guilt thing.
Anyhoo, I told my current partner eventually and he was pretty sad at first but then took it as a challenge. He spent 2 hours eating me out and boom I came. Now I can pretty well cum every time he goes down on me within 20 mins. Also we add in my lipstick vibrator during sex so I can cum in his dick. Yeah, this was very honest and transparent lol. Sorry if I grossed ya out!
First boyfriend was a selfish ass.
Your new boyfriend seems to be truly interested in you, you should talk to him as soon as possible, and tell him the truth. He will probably be disappointed, but hopefully soon will be trying to “help you” with that long awaited orgasm ;). You can do your part by communicating exactly what works for you, and if you don’t know, well it’s time to found out.
Good luck
When I first got with my now wife, she would tell me to just “warm her up”. It became apparent that she hadn’t had an orgasm, or rarely had one. The journey to get her off started and now it’s a compete non-issue. If we hadn’t of communicated and talked it thru she most likely would still be where she was and we wouldn’t have been able to experience the journey.
Communication is very important. As a man, making my partner orgasm is incredibly fulfilling and rewarding.