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My (28F) SO (32M) made a troubling remark…

I’d be pissed at you too. There was nothing wrong with what he said. When did admiring how good looking someone is become wrong. Jesus. I’ve even said that about young girls or boys.. Their going to break some hearts.. Good lord.. You completely hurt his feelings and made him feel like a pedo. And… And pedo would never come out and say that in front of people..

You have problems sort yourself out

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It’s an inappropriate comment to make for sure. He basically said he thought they were attractive and on top of that they’re 16. Dont feel bad for feeling uncomfortable. Does he usually get mad at you and ignore you after you bring up something that made you uncomfortable? That’s not ok.

Jesus… people jumping to the “he’s a pervert” extreme are so ridiculous. You have no idea what the intent was and as a make, I’d heard that comment at least 20 times growing up in high school. Yes he is a teacher and needs to be careful but putting him on blast on MassimoL is so unnecessary. I was born in Europe and I’m a liberal but this falls into crazy PC American culture where only in America it would be made into an issue. So out of control. It’s gotten to a point that when my sons playing with other kids and they try to talk to me, I just ignore them because it’s not even worth the off chance the parent is nuts.