My SO of 1.5 years and I work at a boarding high school. My SO interviewed two prospective sixteen years old female students yesterday and remarked to myself and another colleague that “they're going to be heartbreakers” because they're “blonde and pretty”. The school is 2/3 male. The remark troubled me because it seems like an inappropriate thing to say about sixteen year olds. When I brought it up to him later, he blew up at me. He got incredibly angry and defensive. I have not heard from him today.
I have an anxious attachment style and unfortunately, my relationships (and moods), tend to be like a roller coaster. I feel really down and erratic today.
Was I right in thinking this behavior was weird? What should I do now? Any advice appreciated. Thanks!
Tl;Dr: My (28F) SO (32M) called two sixteen year olds “heartbreakers” and blew up when I told him I was bothered by it. Advice needed.