Uhm.. excuse him? Oh hell no. It’s never okay to try to force or guilt your partner to doing something they aren’t comfortable with. It’s one thing if they ask you and you say no and they never bring it up again. But this?? This is ridiculous. This is a red flag with police lights and sirens around it. Dump him then run like hell.
Ditch this guy. He doesn’t respect you at all. You deserve better than that.
You should run,or else he will step in all your other boundaries.
This post has a strong The Other Sister vibe.
Dump, block and move on with your life.