Info – I tried to break up with him some weeks ago but we decided to give the relationship another try.
Today I [28F] was on the phone with him [35M]. Everything was great but then he mentions something. Nothing serious, just my boobs. He knows that my nipples are very sensitive and I don't like it when he is playing with them. We already talked about this, but still – he insists.
We got into a fight, I explained to him again, that this is very uncomfortable for me and that it is literally painful to me. So he said okay, sorry for bringing it up again, he “appologized” explaining to me that he is just really into boobs.
I told him that it is not a real appology if he says “sorry, but I'm just really into boobs and I think you should let me play with your nipples”. We got into a bigger fight and I told him that I want to break up because I don't think it is normal that he is trying to force me into something I don't like.
One hour later he messaged me that I'm overreacting, he asked me if he can at least touch them and he asked for a boobjob as a compensation…
I'm still shocked. What the heck? How should I reply? What should I do? Please help me MassimoL, am I really overreacting?
Thank you in advance!
TLDR: Boyfriend wants to play with my nipples even though he knows it is uncomfortable and painful to me. Said I'm overreacting when I wanted to break up and asked for a boobjob az a compensation.