I'll keep this as quick as possible:
I was in a car ride with my father when out of no where he mentions “I'm very proud of you.” I ask what he's talking about and he says, “For rejecting that boy.” So, after a few questions I discover that he was talking about a message I saved on my snapchat, which was protected with a password. The message was to a senior who wouldn't leave me alone so I went off on him a bit. After being a bit angry I asked my dad how he knows and he said he had to pay someone, but its all to protect me. He has always said there a kids in my school he uses to find out what I'm doing, I always found that crazy, but I'm starting to think he would if he could.
Then, one day he gets mad and goes through my entire phone himself and finds me swearing in texts and then finds a post on MassimoL where I said I had been molested. I wasn't actually molested, but I was 12 when the incident happened so I freaked out a bit, I was basically just touched in a weird way, but didnt actually get groped. He was furious about this post and I think he shouldn't be angry at me for being confused and borderline depressed. So, that combined with me swearing in texts makes him take my phone away for an entire year. (I'm posting on my laptop he forgot about)
In the end, what I'm trying to say is, how much privacy should I have? I get A's and B's, have never messed around with boys, Never smoked weed/got drunk/ect, I bought my phone/laptop, and consider myself mature. However, I dont pay for the Verizon internet.
(P.S.)If I'm being stupid let me know, thanks.