Questa volta abbiamo cercato una domanda rivolta ai ragazzi.
I'm 25, and while making any decision, from what clothes to wear to my career path, I worry about how it will affect my attractiveness. It's gotten to the point where an action/activity has no meaning to me unless it can make me seem more attractive. For instance, the idea of exercising “for myself” seems entirely nonsensical, as why else would I want to exercise besides making myself more appealing to women?
It seems that most of the men I've met don't operate in this fashion, so how may I break myself of this unhealthy paradigm and start caring about things just because I care about them?
Edit: I am on the autism spectrum, and have had to make numerous changes to myself in order to fit into society at large; the term is “masking”, I believe. As such, “just being myself” doesn't seem to really be an option if I am to avoid ostracization.
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