So last week I was looking for my makeup checking the cabinets and draws in the bathroom and I couldn't find it anywhere and it was weird because I always left it in the cabinets. So I asked my boyfriend if he knew where my makeup was and he told me that he burned it and threw it away in a very blunt way. I was so pissed at him and told him why in the hell would you do that and he said that “you shouldn't be relying on that makeup to make you feel confident, trying to compete with these other women and doing it because of society.” Which kinda left me speechless because I was kinda doing it for those reasons but he still could've told me that he was about to do that. He also said that “I hate seeing y'all girls especially you putting on makeup and hiding the actual you from the world.
If us men don't need makeup to look good then y'all don't need makeup to look good either because it's a fact in science that women look better than men overall. I get it that it's like a work of art or to express yourself but you should express first in the natural way and not in a Lady Gaga way. You need to feel confident without that eyeliner, lip stick, brush and etc.”
I think he's speaking the truth but I still think he went too far with it. I need y'all opinion/insight/advice on this.
Edit: He has psychosis and has a obsessive compulsive disorder. He probably had an episode of good intentions but I don't know. He's also has hypomania.
Edit #2: ?Ight people I get it sheesh. No need to get triggered. I just broken up with him and blocked him. It's not like we all got a gun to our heads and if I don't leave him we're all dead???♀️.