I'm on mobile, I'm sorry with how I type.
I don't know how to rephrase the title but basically, I (23f) found out my bf (25m) cheated on me for 4 months. I found out about his affair October last year. I saw their messages. The girl was a mutual friend of ours. She's 24, with a baby who just turned 1 year old last October as well and is in a relationship with the father for 8 years now. When I found out about it, we had a very brief exchange of words, with her apologizing and hoping that me and my bf will still be ok. Then that was it.
I gave my bf a chance, everything got “better”. There are days that i remember everything and i break down. I still ask myself why i deserved that. Then it bugs me how that girl just, got away with it. How I'm still suffering everyday questioning my worth and she just said sorry and that's it. A part of me really wants to tell her boyfriend/live in partner cause I think I might get the peace I want plus I think he deserves to know what happened.
Should I tell him? How?
Tldr: bf cheated on me few months back, were ok now but i have this urge to tell the other woman's bf about what happened