I just moved into this new apartment with three roommates. My one roommate, we'll call him Ryan. Ryan was pretty interested in me from the start and is someone who is looking for a serious relationship. I just got out of a serious relationship and told him that I needed some time before I could even consider dating again.
He agreed that I needed time and said he was okay with it. After spending time around him and trying to be interested in him, I decided that my feelings were never going to change and that I only see him as a roommate. We never did anything together besides cuddle awkwardly once. I've wanted to experience dating different guys for some time now and really want to be able to bring a guy over to hang out with in my room. I wouldn't hang out with him in common areas and I would be 100% respectful.
The only problem is, he told my roommate that he doesn't want any guys I'm talking to over and almost kicked me out because he thought I was talking to other guys.. I don't want to become homeless because I invited a guy over but I also don't want to not be allowed to bring guys over that I'm interested in. When he thought that I was talking to other guys, he tried to sleep with one of my roommates friends in my bed and didn't end up sleeping with her only because she didn't want to. Am I the asshole?
TL;DR Roommate is interested in me however I am not interested in him and he doesn't want me to bring guys over to our apartment.